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Planning a Multicultural Wedding? How to Honor Cultural Traditions with Care
Multicultural weddings aren’t about checking boxes or putting traditions on display. They’re an opportunity to honor history, family, and meaning with intention. When done thoughtfully, cultural traditions deepen a wedding day. They tell a story that’s bigger than the couple alone. But when done without care, context, or support, even well-meaning choices can feel rushed, misunderstood, or disconnected from their roots. If you’re planning a multicultural wedding, here’s how t

Tabria Etuk
3 days ago3 min read


Potlucks, DIY, and Self-Catering Your Wedding: Here’s What to Consider
Nontraditional catering options can be beautiful, meaningful, and budget-friendly, but they’re not automatically easier or less stressful. Potlucks, DIY meals, and self-catering often come from a good place: Wanting to save money Wanting food that feels familiar or culturally specific Wanting a wedding that feels communal, not corporate All valid. All doable. But before you commit, it’s important to understand the full picture , especially the labor, logistics, and tradeoffs

Tabria Etuk
Apr 103 min read


Catering Costs, What They Include and How to Avoid Sticker Shock
If catering is the first wedding quote that made you say, “Wait… is this real?” you’re not alone. Catering is often a large expense in a wedding budget, and it catches couples off guard more than almost anything else. Not because they’re unrealistic, but because what catering includes is rarely explained upfront. Let’s pull back the curtain and talk about what you’re actually paying for, why it costs what it does, and how to think about catering with clarity instead of panic

Tabria Etuk
Apr 33 min read


Wedding Planning with Chosen Family in Mind
Walking down the aisle is powerful, but it’s only one moment. There are so many other ways to center chosen family throughout the day. Specialty Seating During the Ceremony If the front row feels reserved for people who don’t reflect your real support system, change it. Options include: Reserved seating in the first or first two rows A front row labeled “Chosen Family” Mixed seating that reflects closeness, not hierarchy This quietly but clearly signals who holds significanc

Tabria Etuk
Mar 273 min read


How to Share Your Mood Board with Wedding Vendors (and Actually Get What You Want)
You’ve made the mood board. It’s cohesive. It’s intentional. It feels like you. And then comes the next question most couples don’t expect: “Okay… how do we show this to our vendors without sounding confusing, bossy, or totally unhinged?” The good news: sharing your mood board the right way can make vendor communication easier, faster, and way more aligned. Sharing it the wrong way can lead to misinterpretation, mismatched expectations, and that dreaded phrase: “This isn’t

Tabria Etuk
Mar 203 min read


Design Your Wedding Day: A Mood Board Starter Kit
Wedding design doesn’t start with linens or florals. Start your planning process with how you want the day to feel. Before you choose colors, rentals, or décor, you need to understand the overall vibe you’re trying to create. That’s where a mood board comes in. A mood board is your visual North Star. It helps you articulate what you love, spot patterns you didn’t realize were there, and communicate your vision clearly to vendors, and especially your wedding planner. If you’re

Tabria Etuk
Mar 133 min read


Yes, Your Queer Wedding Deserves a Planner Who Gets It
Let’s say this plainly: Queer couples already do enough explaining in the world. Your wedding planning experience shouldn’t be another place where you’re educating people just to feel respected. You deserve a planner who gets it . Not one who needs a crash course in pronouns, family dynamics, or why tradition doesn’t always fit. Someone whose lived experience informs how they plan, advocate, and protect your peace on one of the most meaningful days of your life. Because at th

Tabria Etuk
Mar 62 min read


What’s the Difference Between a Wedding Day-Of Coordinator vs. a Venue Coordinator?
This is one of the most common (and costly) misunderstandings in wedding planning: “Our venue has a coordinator, so we don’t need a wedding coordinator… right?” Totally fair question. And the honest answer is: They do very different jobs. Both are important, but not interchangeable. Let’s break it down clearly so you know who does what, who advocates for whom, and why having the right support matters on your wedding day. The Wedding Day-Of Coordinator: Your Advocate & Your Ai

Tabria Etuk
Feb 273 min read


Planning a Wedding Can Feel Like a Part-Time Job: Here's Why Investing in Help Can Save Your Sanity
Hello, future newlyweds! Planning a wedding without assistance is akin to juggling on a tightrope. After planning my own wedding with no...

Tabria Etuk
Aug 6, 20252 min read


Full Service vs. Partial Planning vs. Day-of Coordination: Which One’s for You?
Hey there, lovely soon-to-be newlyweds! My name is Tabria Etuk from Truly Trusted Events, and today we’re diving into how you can choose...

Tabria Etuk
Jul 17, 20253 min read


100+ Must-Ask Questions for Your Wedding Vendors
When planning your wedding, selecting the right vendors is pivotal to ensuring your day is as magical as you've always dreamed. A...

Tabria Etuk
Jul 3, 20259 min read


What Does a Wedding Planner Actually Do?
Hello, wonderful couples, my name is Tabria Etuk. I’m the calm, collected voice behind Truly Trusted Events, dedicated to crafting...

Tabria Etuk
Jun 5, 20254 min read


Why Finding the Right Wedding Planner Fit Matters
Hello, beautiful souls! I want to share my thoughts on why finding the right wedding planner is not just important, it’s essential....

Tabria Etuk
May 1, 20253 min read
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